To know and be known...

This passed thanksgiving weekend, my family and I watched a number of Christmas movies. Though I still haven't caught the Christmas spirit, I was completely delighted to just chill. Anyways, we watched White Christmas which I would argue is one of the best, if not the best, Christmas movie of all time. Though made in the 50s, it is timeless. The superb dance numbers coupled with fanntastic music and an overall homey feeling make this movie one of the best. We recently got the special anniversary edition complete with a commentary by Rosemary Clooney as well as a number of behind the scenes stories.

What really struck me though were the individual segments of the back stories of Rosemary Clooney, Bing Crosby, and Danny Kaye. They interviewed friends and family members to tell the real aspects of their lives. Immediately my view of them had changed, for the better. Rosemary Clooney had a quaint house in Kentucky overlooking a river which she used as a peaceful escape from the craziness of Hollywood. Bing Crosby had a heart for soldiers overseas, giving out free records to soldiers and donating millions of dollars to the war effort. And Danny Kaye, the goofball that he was, dedicated much of his life to the UNICEF movement, relating to children around the world through comedy and fun that went beyond any language barriers. Think Angelina Jolie and other present-day celebs are "do-gooders"? Well this guy was the original celebrity humanitarian.

I know what you're thinking, so these people had lives, big deal. What does that have to do with anything? My point is this, they had lives and it has everything to do with anything. You see, until I watched these bonus features, the only image I had of these actors was what I saw in the film. For all I knew, they were just the characters in the movie who randomly broke out in song (which I wish happened more often in life). But now, I know that they each had a story to be told, and I feel like I have a piece of their legacy, a piece of them now in my memory and a part of my existence.

Everybody has a story. Celebrities, the person sitting next to you at the coffee shop or walking passed you at school, they all have a story. I feel like I am so often caught up in my own story that I fail to find others' stories. But, I think learning other people's stories is the best way to get passed our own previous conceptions of them and move into their truth. And in that process, we are able to love more freely.

My mind is full right now as I try to wrap my head around the fact that there are 6 billion people on the planet, each with their own story to tell. And each of their stories are intertwined with hundreds if not thousands of others, creating this web that is the world. People's stories also connect the past, present and future to create this beautiful story of the existence of the world, a story that is written by God. One that is not constrained by limits of time, but just is. Now my mind is lost out there, somewhere trying to see the big picture which my brain will never have the capacity to know and understand. I'm rambling I know, but just make an effort to know people, I mean really know them, before it's too late.